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Tuesday, November 18, 2008

~Always looking at the Stars

Vedic Relationship Guide

Your Attitude to Relationships as Shaped by Your Birth Star or Nakshatra Jyeshtha

Jyeshtha is the eighteenth nakshatra and is ruled by the planet Mercury. It resides in Scorpio and contains the star Antares. It's western star name is Scorpii.

Your main motive of getting into relationships is to build up your self-esteem using the approval of others. Keeping up appearances can be more important than anything else because of this. If it enhances your appearance in the eyes of others, you do not hesitate to make sacrifices.

You want to gain respect of your loved ones and do whatever is necessary to adhere to prevailing standards or morality and virtue. Because of all of this, your relationships may be based on the acts of charity, kindness and philanthropy. You try to establish yourself as the leader of your group and don't hesitate to put others down in order to establish your supremacy. You are always eager to know the secrets of others and can use them to fulfill your own agendas.

You have had many experiences because of your urge to get into various relationships, maturing quickly because of this. However, an urge to create quick results might have caused disasters many times. If you adopt manipulative ways to manage relationships, your troubles and woes become magnified. You may have a tendency to moan and groan to attract the attention of others, as well as operating with revengeful and vindictive motivations. You may be jealous of any perceived quick successes and put those who achieve them. Alternatively, you can use this strong competitive spirit creatively to evolve consistently and manifest the full extent of your competence.

You are also strongly motivated to be protective towards the weak, subordinated, helpless and underprivileged. Often, you'll dive headlong into danger in order to protect others. However, you demand a special place in their lives and expect them to follow your wishes in return. You feel that one should always fulfill the commitments made to others. Once someone trusts you with a responsibility, you do your best to meet the expectations. However, at times you can also carry your sense of responsibility and protectiveness to the extremes, which can be suffocating for others. Try to be aware of your possessive tendencies, as you may lose friends and family members because of them.

You may have a feeling that you can sort out the problems in others' lives, but only on your terms. If you seem to have a know-it-all attitude about helping them, they may actively avoid you. Cultivating respect for others will help you strengthen your relationships. You need to find more sensitive ways of relating to others as equals rather than dominating them or making them feel obligated.

Your Moon Sign is Scorpio
This combination gives you innate talent. You are clever and prone to take quick action. In addition, you have a take-charge personality and are fixed in purpose. You have great mental strength and can face adversity alone.

The ability to make revolutionary changes and be a great reformer is also indicated in this combination. In addition, you would be very effective in leading and guiding others.

However, the Moon is debilitated in Scorpio and at its weakest position. Each planet is debilitated or at its weakest when it occupies a particular sign. This could make you very intense and sensitive. Emotions can be very volatile and you may be jealous, moody and harbor long-term anger.

Try not to get intimate too quickly in relationships, as well as being unable to break bad emotional attachments when needed, since both of these are indicated by this combination. You may be overly sensitive of being blamed or embarrassed and may express some self-isolating behavior.

The Sabian Symbol for the Corresponding Degree of the Ascendent
A General Accepting Defeat Gracefully

This Symbol shows the ability, or the need, to be able to see where and when to 'Accept' that things are not working and letting go of events or people or thoughts that no longer work for you. There's times when we realize there is no longer any point in fighting and to 'win' in some situations may be impossible. At the time of surrender, it is the valor of the battle and the way you handled yourself and others that will be remembered. You may find yourself at this point during your life and it is how gracefully you handle defeat that will be the measure of your worth. You will go onto other endeavors and win. You don't always have to 'Accept Defeat': sometimes you have to accept your own successes. Truth of inner worth. Learning that every minor skirmish is not a defeat. Giving up and being willing to start again. Nobility of character. Letting go of the charge around anger. The Caution: Being a bad loser. Feeling everything is going to come out badly. Reliance on self-limitations. Seeing the negative. Betrayal and loss. Loss of support. Surrendering.

Some interesting stuff

Girl Facts--

when a girl is mean to you after a break-up
she wants you back but she is too
scared she'll get hurt and knows
you're gone forever!

when you catch a girl glancing at you,
she wants you to look back
and smile

When a girl bumps into your arm,
while walking with you
she wants
you to hold her hand

When she wants a hug
she will just stand there

When u break a girls heart
she still feels it when
you run into each other 3 years later

When a girl is quiet,
millions of things are running through her
mind..

When a girl is not arguing,
she is thinking deeply,,

When a girl looks at you with eyes full of
questions,
she is wondering how long you will be
around

When a girl answers, "I'm fine," after a
few seconds,
SHE IS NOT FINE AT ALL

When a girl stares at you,
she is wondering why you are playing games

When a girl lays her head on your chest,
she is wishing for you to be hers forever

When a girl says she can't live
without you,
she has made up her mind that you are
her future

no one in this world can miss you more
than that

Guy Facts---

When a guy calls you,
he wants to be with you

When a guy is quiet,
He's listening to you...

When a guy is not arguing,
He realizes he's wrong

When a guy says, "I'm fine" after a few
minutes
he means it

When a guy stares at you,
he wishes you would care about him and
wonders if you do

When your laying your head on a guy's
chest,
he has the world

When a guy calls/texts/comments/messages you everyday,
he is in love

When a (good) guy tells you he loves you,
he means it

When a guy says he can't live without you,
he's with you till your done

When a guy says, "I miss you,"
he misses you more than you could have
ever missed him or anything else

Kissing Spots by the Stars

Libra : Under a tree.

Sagittarius : in the bathroom

Taurus: On The Kitchen Table

Capricorn :.In the hot tub

Aquarius : .In The Elevator

Aries : in a pool!

Pisces : On the trampoline

Gemini : under the stars.

Virgo : In a car.

Leo : On the beach.

Scorpio : Everywhere.

Cancer : In the rain.

►VIRGO - THE BEST SEXUAL PARTNER (8/23-9/22) Love to bust. Nice. Sassy. Intelligent. EXTREMELY SEXY. Predict future. Loves being in long relationships. Has lots of friends. Great talker. Always gets what he or she wants. Also not a fighter, but if they have to, they will also knock the lights out of you if it comes down to it.Cool. Loves to own Geminis' in sports. Extremely fun. Loves to joke. Smart.

►SCORPIO - THE VIRGIN (10/23-11/21) Loves being in long relationships. Likes to give a good fight for what they want. Extremely outgoing. Loves to help people in times of need. Good personality. Stubborn. A caring person.

►AQUARIUS - THE ONE U CAN'T TOUCH (1/20-2/18) Great talker. Attractive and passionate. Laid back. Knows how to Have fun. Is really good at almost anything. Great kisser. Unpredictable. Outgoing. Down to earth. Attractive. Loud. Talkative. Not one to mess with. Rare to find. Good when found.

►TAURUS - THE BAD BOY OR GIRL (4/20-5/20) Very high appeal. Love is one of a kind. Very romantic. Most caring person you will ever meet! Entirely creative. Extremely random and proud of it. Freak. Spontaneous. Great at telling Stories. Best kisser. Not a Fighter, But will Knock your lights out if it comes down to it. Someone you should hold on to.

►CANCER - HARD TO CATCH THEIR HEART (6/22-7/22) Trustworthy. Attractive. Great kisser. One of a kind. Loves being In long- term relationships, if you can actually get them to stick around. Extremely energetic. Unpredictable. Will exceed your expectations. Normally not a Fighter, but will if neccessary. Someone loves them right now, they just dont know it.

►LIBRA - THE PIMP (9/23-10/22) Caring and kind. Smart. Center of attention. High appeal. Has the last word. Good to find, hard to keep. Fun to be around. Extremely weird but in a good way. Good Sense of Humor. Thoughtful. Always gets what he or she wants. Loves to joke. Very popular. Silly, fun and sweet.

►PISCES - THE SEX ADDICT (2/19-3/20) EXTREMELY adorable. Intelligent. Loves to joke. Very Good sense of humor. Energetic. Predict future. BEST kisser. Always get what they want. Very Attractive. Easy going. RARE Find. GOOD when found. Loves being in long relationship. Talkative. Romantic. Caring. NOT one to mess with.

►ARIES - THE PLAYER (3/21-4/19) Nice. Love is one of a kind. Great listeners Very Good in bed...(hahaha)Lover not a fighter, but will still knock you out. Trustworthy. Always happy. Loud. Talkative. Outgoing VERY FORGIVING. Loves to make out. Has a beautiful smile. Generous. Strong. THE MOST IRRESISTIBLE.

►CAPRICORN - THE SEXY ONE (12/22-1/19) Dominant in relationships. Someone loves them right now. Always Wants the last word.Rare to find. Caring. Smart. Sweet. Loud. Loyal. Beautiful. Goofy. Easy to talk to. Everything you ever wanted. Easy to please.Loves to smile.Beautiful laugh.Patient.Amazing in the you know where..!!! Bit of naughty.The one and only.Sincere..very cheeky.

►GEMINI--HARD TO LOVE (5/21-6/21) Outgoing. Lovable. Spontaneous. Not one to mess with. Funny. Excellent kisser. EXTREMELY adorable. Good personalities. Loves relationships. Addictive. Loud.

Dear Mum

When you were 8 years old, your mom handed you an ice cream. You thanked her by dripping it all over your lap.

When you were 9 years old, she paid for piano lessons. You thanked her by
never even bothering to practice.

When you were 10 years old she drove you all day, from soccer to football
to one birthday party after another.You thanked her by jumping out of the
car and never looking back.

When you were 11 years old, she took you and your friends to the movies.You thanked her by asking to sit in a different row.

When you were 12 years old, she warned you not to watch certain TV shows. You thanked her by waiting until she left the house.

When you were 13, she suggested a haircut that was becoming. You thanked her by telling her she had no taste.

When you were 14, she paid for a month away at summer camp. You thanked her by forgetting to write a single letter.

When you were 15, she came home from work, looking for a hug. You thanked her by having your bedroom door locked.

When you were 16, she taught you how to drive her car. You thanked her by taking it every chance you could.

When you were 17, she was expecting an important call. You thanked her by being on the phone all night.

When you were 18, she cried at your high school graduation . You thanked
her by staying out partying until dawn.

When you were 19, she paid for your college tuition, drove you to campus
and carried your bags. You thanked her by saying good-bye outside the dorm so you wouldn't be embarrassed in front of your friends.

When you were 25, she helped to pay for your wedding, and she cried and told you how deeply she loved you. You thanked her by moving halfway across the country.

When you were 50, she fell ill and needed you to take care of her. You thanked her by reading about the burden parents become to their
children. And then, one day, she
quietly died.

And everything you never did came
crashing down like thunder on YOUR HEART..

On Pointe @)~~

10:59 PM