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Wednesday, November 12, 2008

~Astrology

Your Life Symbol Cards
For birth date: November 7, 1983

Your Personality Motivator Card
Like your Astrological Sign, you have a Tarot Trump (Major Arcana) card that is assigned to you for life according to your birth date. This life card describes who you are to the outside world, your tendencies, personality type, potential, challenges, motivations, expectations, or how others may see you. We refer to it as your Personality Motivator Card (PMC).

Upright) You have amazing powers of transformation, and you may bring new life or drastic changes wherever you go. Others might try to avoid you, for you might remind them of their own failings, insecurities, or destructive behaviors, or otherwise force them to see the truth. You may seek out opportunities to evolve, and are able to let go of the past, accept responsibility, or to justify your convictions or actions, but this isn't without suffering, guilt, or feeing inadequately prepared. You may feel left out or different in the way that you handle the inevitable, and your arrival may herald the end of the proverbial party. Your motto may be: Out with the old.

Your Annual Development Card
Your growth and development cards for the current year and your lifetime describe some of the positive and negative influences, possibilities, issues, or even people with whom you may come in contact, or that could have an effect on you throughout the course of each year. We call these your Annual Development Cards (ADCs).

Upright) This year could see you outgoing, positive, generally happy, young at heart, or able to see the bright side to most any situation. You might have the opportunity to enjoy travel, competition, being a team player, the life of the party, or the one who lights up a room, and your exuberance or confidence could become contagious. You could demonstrate a gift for boosting the esteem of others, however, you can be exhausting, draining, or be feeding off the energy of others around you, or overlooking the suffering of others. You may get carried away, have manic tendencies, or not know when to slow down, relax, or quit, but learning to balance a sunny, extroverted disposition, with the need to chill out once in a while, can result in genuine gratitude for just being alive. This could be a really exciting year for you.

Looking Back
The Looking Back position reveals past experience, challenge, or issues that may have an influence on current perspective or level of intimacy.
The Justice (reversed) in this position suggests that you may have gotten caught up in criticisms, vengeance, jealousy, demands or trading indignities in an attempt to hide the truth of what was happening in your relationship or love life.There might have been a high price to pay because of it. Through the experience you could have learned to get to the point, or to back up or support your convictions or accusations, thereby avoiding excessive emotional distress, drama, complications or proceedings.
In general, the Justice suggests that there is a natural adjustment toward balance. On the surface, this can be thought of as justice through human law, but more universally, it is Karma or Divine Law. For every action has a reaction; every cause has an effect; every beginning has an end. This is the universe's way of maintaining or restoring equilibrium, balance and harmony.The card of Justice suggests the balance between the abstract or creative directly applied to the practical and realistic. Truth, clarity, simplicity, self-awareness, and authentic self-confidence are central to Justice. Ultimately, through Justice, every form of energy must be directed to the full satisfaction of its destiny. It is being suggested that you weigh carefully any and all factors, and points of view, as well as listening to your inner guidance before taking action or attempting to resolve a pending matter.

Self Portrait
The Self Portrait position offers a look at inner strengths, hindrances, interests, experience, or self awareness that may affect results, your romantic status, or that may stem from your prior history.
The Five of Chalices (reversed) in this position suggests that you may finally be coming to terms with a loss, grief, illness, depression, or regret that may have come as the result of an unexpected separation, divorce, mistreatment, job loss, rejection, diagnosis, death, or other emotionally charged event. You might even be experiencing small comforts of peace or acceptance. Somehow, you are trying to find some positive in what is otherwise a bad situation. You feel as though you will see the light at the end of the tunnel, and you want to confront the loss so you can pick up the pieces, renew your spiritual vitality, and go on.
In general, the Five of Chalices is Disappointment or Regret, and it can represent the sorrow and loneliness you may feel as the result of unresolved emotional issues. This card acknowledges that it is OK to grieve for the loss of what, at one time may have brought you great joy, but it asks you to remember that this pain can cause you to grow stronger, and discover hope, perhaps through a budding friendship or new romance. It isn't healthy to pine away for things or people you can't have or that you may have lost, for no matter how long you focus on them, they will still remain gone or out of reach. The proverbial milk has spilled all over the place, and there is no use in crying over it anymore. Turn away and begin to try to move on and face life. Now is a time for you to try to learn to accept and integrate your regret, heartbreak, or disappointment, for it may not be unfounded or without reason and you can't simply shrug this one off. It's OK to reflect on what you have left behind, or what might have been, just don't get stuck there, for what you seek is not where you are looking. It is time to deal with and eliminate some of the "baggage."

Where Am I Now?
The Where Am I Now? position reveals possible developments, situations, difficulties, or challenges that you may be encountering in your relationship or love life, along with practical suggestions for getting the most out of this current phase or experience.
The Eight of Swords (reversed) in this position suggests that you don't need anybody to rescue, justify, or save you, or you may not want to be tied to the boundaries of a relationship at this time. In an effort to assert your independence; uncover the truth; manage or avoid issues of abandonment; prejudice; vanity or getting yourself in a bind, you may have your back up or be suspicious of any offers of help, particularly from those who offer pity or feigned empathy. You might prefer to do things for yourself rather than enduring or risking ridicule, public scorn, or humiliation over being perceived as weak, which could make you appear a bit stand-offish, mistrustful, cynical, cold, harsh in judgment, or lacking in empathy in the romance or relationship department. The truth is that you might fear commitment, persecution, or being vulnerable based upon past heartbreak, rejection, or defeat, which may have put you in a position to have to fend for yourself in the first place. Possibly at your wits end, or having second thoughts about going through with something, you might fear the utter collapse of your resolve or dignity should you think too much on; expose, or justify your condition, situation, or passionless state of "affairs," so you may make no excuses or apologies, or feel no guilt for putting yourself in a potentially compromising position, breaking commitments, or for walking away. On the ugly side, you may be using drama; vanity; mind games; hang-ups; victimization; playing the "damsel in distress," or using mental torment as an excuse or bait for setting a trap to get someone else to do your dirty work, come to your rescue, steal or capture your heart, or to get you out of a sticky situation. More likely, however, you are confident or have the self esteem to overcome or deal with challenges on your own terms or without self imposed restrictions, and probably don't wait around for permission or outside validation. Expect a moment of revelation or surprise as that which has been hidden, secret, or unknown could come out; be made known, discovered, or released, and that "someday" may be today.
In general, the Eight of Swords is Interference, Bondage, or Fear, and it can represent the idea of self-denial or self-defeating behaviors as a form of manipulation or deception. This can only compromise your character, for you are putting responsibility on, or in, an outside source. The Eight of Swords asks you to recognize the possibility that you may have become restricted, either literally; perhaps because of a prison, or figuratively; due to the creation of a vicious cycle of stress, sorrow, indecision, or fear of the future. It requests that you seek council or advice so that you can gain fresh perspective, inspiration, or put your mind at ease, and get moving again; for this attitude, fear, or fantasy, can be otherwise paralyzing and non-productive.

Free Sample Romantic Compatibility Reading for Mindy & Joey

Mindy Lam's Sun Conjunct Joey Kum's Sun: You strongly identify with each other and are very much alike in important ways. It is easy for you to be together because you do not have to explain yourselves to one another. An innate appreciation and understanding of one another's essence exists between you, and this is vitalizing and ego-affirming for both of you. However, you share the same flaws and weaknesses as well as the positive qualities, and you may find it difficult to be with someone who so clearly exhibits the very things you like least about yourself. The more you accept yourself, the more beneficial and delightful your relationship with one another is.

Mindy Lam's Sun Conjunct Joey Kum's Saturn: The two of you often work well together on shared responsibilities and practical matters of importance. However, there is also a constrained, serious tone to the relationship that can make it stifling and frustrating. Joey Kum has a strong tendency to criticize and judge Mindy Lam's actions, sometimes accurately and sometimes unjustly. Joey Kum should guard against this tendency to dampen Mindy Lam's enthusiasm, and Mindy Lam needs to avoid being overly sensitive to Joey Kum's suggestions and criticisms. Joey Kum's tendency to dominate, control, or even repress Mindy Lam makes Mindy Lam feel resentful at times, and Mindy Lam may feel lowered vitality and self-confidence after being with Joey Kum for a long time. You must make room for lightness and play, or you both will feel burdened by the tone that is set between you.

Mindy Lam's Sun Trine Joey Kum's Moon: You two are the best of friends! You understand and appreciate each other, and are able to work together very harmoniously. No relationship is free of difficulty and stress, and this astrological influence does not nullify other stressful influences described elsewhere in this report, but it does add a harmonious quality to your relationship that helps you over the rough spots.

Free Sample Couples Reading for Mindy & Joey
Part 1: Planets and Aspects
Sun Conjunct Venus
This aspect signifies that you just plainly love each other. The attraction is so strong between you that even though you may be incompatible by other standards, you still feel like being with your partner because of that love you feel for them. It's not that they won't occasionally drive you nuts - they will. It's just that the bottom line is that there is real love between you and there is no stronger emotion in the universe.By being together you can create beauty and form as well as appreciate art and music. Your home can easily be filled with "treasures" that reflect the talents you have. But as always with Venus, be careful of overindulging in the good things of life so they do not become a noose around your neck instead of an object of desire. Remember, the more things you have, the more trouble you are likely to have. You will not mind showing off what you have accrued together, but vanity can become an undesired side effect of this aspect if it is not kept in check.

Avoid hiding any difficulties in your relationship and bring them out in the open so they can be resolved or at least recognized in order to avoid major problems down the road. You may also be drawn to speculative ventures with this aspect, so just remember to be practical in your expenditures.

With this configuration, no matter what difficulties come along to challenge you, you will always feel a need and desire to make peace, reconcile and create harmony and cooperation in your relationship. This aspect offers a great stability that will keep you from turning against each other, unless the obstacles become totally overwhelming.

A great deal of time and effort can be put into social activities and if you are involved in creative ventures together, then this aspect adds support and form to your ideas.

Sun Conjunct Saturn
This aspect is an indication that by being together you will share very powerful learning experiences which should not be taken lightly. Yours may very well be a fated and unavoidable relationship as well. Your relationship may be short-termed or long, but understand that Sun/Saturn bonds are not easily broken and they tend to bind you together for good or ill.

Your relationship together will expose facets of your personalities that you were unaware of and that you may not want to face. If you can take this opportunity to learn and grow, then you will discover a great deal about your faults and weaknesses. And the only way to overcome your weaknesses is to squarely face them and resolve to correct what needs correcting.

If you are looking for a foot-loose and fancy-free relationship, then don't enter into this one because you are likely to feel like a dog on a leash, and a short one at that. Limitations and confinement surround this aspect and unless you are looking for a little discipline, then it would be better to leave that to the boot camp drill instructor. Make no mistake, with this aspect there will be times when you feel you are restrained and confined just like in prison.

On a positive note, if you have been irresponsible and immature, then this relationship will show you the error of your ways and how you can improve. There is nothing like a little maturity to help us be better people. If your experience together is needed as part of a master plan, then you may very well have a long association. If not, then your relationship may be short-lived.

You may very well blame each other for all of the difficulties within your relationship. Each of you may see the other as the controller, the manipulator, the disapproving authority figure, the judge and jury, the stick in the mud who has no sense of humor at all. Constant duties, obligations and responsibilities may sap all the life out of your being together, yet you may continue to do them as though you were driven by some slave driver. This aspect does give a sense of security and that sense should not be taken lightly.

Personal one-on-one attachment, affection, fondness and tenderness will be lost to responsibility and hard work. This might be good in a working business partnership, but in a close personal relationship feelings will probably suffer.

You can expect a great deal of struggle, hardship and having to overcome adversity at every turn. One of you may very well become a great burden to the other in some way, thus helping them or yourself to mature and become more self-reliant.

Financial hardships, possible chronic health, oppression, obligations, and restrictions sum up the balance of this configuration. Yet this aspect does give you the power to endure and to overcome.

Sun Semisquare Jupiter
You have great faith in each other and you inspire, encourage and cheer each other on with great exuberance. The problem here, though, may be that your hopes for each other are unrealistic and that reality isn't met by your visionary expectations, even though an aura of confidence and positive affirmations surround you. You may spend a great deal of time, energy and money in your quests and you may travel a great deal because of internal restlessness, but your plans are apt to not work out.Religion, education, and philosophy are interests that you share, but the difficulty may lie in that there are differences between you in accepting the other's ideas so, instead of expansion, these differences bring stagnation or apathy.

Practical considerations may go right out the window when making decisions and large-scale errors in judgment may be made, thus leading to failure instead of success. You seem to count on things before they have materialized and this leaves you somewhat disillusioned by the whole process. Failure can be realized in business, romance and gambling because of foolish optimism.

Another danger here is that you both may promise more to the relationship than you can deliver, thus leaving one of you feeling that the other is unreliable. Ego confrontations are also a part of the picture and difficulties may arise with authority figures such as parents. You may also go overboard with finances which results in loss. The two of you will tend to be very materialistic, extravagant and arrogant, spending money on useless items just for the sake of show. These actions will eventually show you the error of your ways.

If you are not careful, there can be minor brushes with the law so you would be well advised to keep your noses clean.

Sun Semisquare Neptune
Step back and take a long, hard look at this relationship. What do you see? Chances are you see the illusion of what it is rather than the reality. What you see in each other is a fantasy of sorts, full of hope, dreams, romance and balance, which only has its place in a magician's act. This relationship has the potential to confuse and deceive you because of the wonderful picture it paints.

Honesty will have to play a big part in this relationship if it is to succeed, and even at that, someone you trust should be employed as a third party sounding board before any big decisions are made or even considered.

It may be that you refuse to face the truth about what this relationship really is. One or both of you may out-and-out lie and deceive the other. "I'll save you!", should perhaps be the theme of this aspect, as one or both of you tries to save the other through total sacrifice to your partner, thus furthering the delusions in your relationship. The thing to remember is that neither of you can rescue the other no matter what you perceive their problems to be. If you try, then you will drown along with them. One lesson of this relationship is that you must learn to relate to each other as equals and not to impose unrealistic expectations on the other.Financial or business arrangements should NEVER be the prime factor for a relationship with this aspect, as things will end in disaster.

Misunderstandings, failure, deception, scandal, and drug, drinking or gambling problems surround this energy.

Free Sample Relationship Potential Reading for Joey & Mindy
SECTION I: How Joey Kum Relates to Other People
Sun Sextile Jupiter with an orb between 1 and 5 degrees You have a genial, pleasant quality which inspires confidence in others. It sometimes surprises you the way people trust you with their innermost thoughts. Moral integrity is important to you and, while you are not judgmental, you will not violate a principle.

Mercury Sextile Mars with an orb between 1 and 5 degrees Your sense of humor is one of your outstanding qualities. It usually manifests as a rather wry wit. Anyone you're close to must share this sense of irony. You probably have a special talent or an absorbing interest. Your closest ties are likewise involved.

SECTION II: How Mindy Lam Relates to Other People
Venus Square Neptune with an orb of less than 1/2 degree Love for you is often a "divine discontent". You are so romantic and idealistic it is difficult for any mortal person to sustain your interest without disappointing you. Your need to idealize loved ones may make you susceptible to illusion.

Mars SemiSquare Saturn with an orb of less than 1 degree Your emotional needs were not met when you were growing up and there was nothing you could do about it. Even today, you tend not to express anger or pain or resentment except when you are in an infrequent rage. This is a problem in close relationships.

Venus Conjunct Mars with an orb between 3 and 5 degrees Yours was not a happy childhood and, while there is nothing you want more than a close love relationship, you may also fear it. You probably have an active sex life but may have some discomfort acknowledging feelings of love, dependence or vulnerability.

Mercury Sextile Mars with an orb between 1 and 5 degrees Your sense of humor is one of your outstanding qualities. It usually manifests as a rather wry wit. Anyone you're close to must share this sense of irony. You probably have a special talent or an absorbing interest. Your closest ties are likewise involved.

Free Sample Heaven Sent Reading for Joey & Mindy
Joey Kum's Sun Conjunct Mindy 's Sun:You are alike in many ways and have a natural understanding of each other. Your egos' needs are alike and your creative talents similar, therefore, being with the other is like being with yourself. You KNOW one another and are, therefore, comfortable together.

Mindy 's Sun Trine Joey Kum's Moon:You have a beautiful relationship. You understand and respect each other. You feel supported by and supportive of each other, and give one another the freedom to express your emotional needs.

Joey Kum's Sun Conjunct Mindy 's Mercury:You see eye to eye and understand each other clearly. You may say the same thing at the same time---and probably love to talk with each other.

Mindy 's Sun Sextile Joey Kum's Mars:You energize and activate each other positively, and encourage one another to go for it NOW. You trigger the winning spirit in each other. Life becomes an adventure when you are together.

Mindy 's Sun Sextile Joey Kum's Jupiter:You have a beautiful friendship. You like each other and love being together. You help each other see the big picture and trigger optimism and generosity in one another.

Joey Kum's Sun Conjunct Mindy 's Saturn:You bring out each other's maturity, seriousness and wisdom. You feel a responsibility for each other that can manifest as loyalty. You nevertheless, can feel restricted by the responsibility inherent in the relationship.

Joey Kum's Mercury Sextile Mindy 's Asc.:You understand one another and encourage each other to verbalize your ideas.

Free Sample of Lovers' Profile for Joey & Mindy
Joey Kum's Natural MateVenus in Sagittarius Applied to Joey Kum's Natural MateWhen Joey Kum was born, the "Goddess of Love" was in Sagittarius the Archer. So, does Joey Kum walk around wearing an apple for a hat, waiting for the one true love to put an arrow through it? The metaphor, while imperfect, does get us started. Joey Kum is quite idealistic about love, and needs a partner who shares that attitude. Philosophically, there has always been a delicate balance between impossible, inhuman, unreachable "live happily ever after" scenarios on one hand, and a kind of despairing cynicism about the impossibility of relationships on the other. Joey Kum leans toward the former--but going too far in that direction leads to a romantic crash and burn that will make a religion out of the latter. Joey Kum needs help with this one, and that's why Joey Kum responds so viscerally to people who are positive about love, who believe in it despite everything. Generally, someone with those attitudes is also one who has a fairly positive, trusting attitude toward life in general, an attitude which has presumably manifested in a willingness to travel, to take risks, to explore various belief systems, to absorb some education...and very probably to have loved more than one human "fixer-upper" before meeting Joey Kum.

Mindy 's Natural MateVenus in Virgo Applied to Mindy 's Natural MateWhen Mindy was born, the "Goddess of Love" was in Virgo the Virgin. Uh oh--does Mindy have a tragic yen for folks who are celibate? Poor Virgo! The jokes abound here, and it's all a big misunderstanding. Virgo isn't about prudery or sexual inexperience. It's about Perfection--and, years ago, virginity was an almost universal metaphor for that pristine condition. What turns Mindy on romantically in the long run is someone who is constantly pushing toward some ideal, some perfection. The natural lover is not a peaceful, easy kind of person, but rather one who carries a kind of inner tension and drive, actually a kind of perpetual uneasiness. It's doubtful that Mindy or anyone else would read those lines and say, "Yeah, that's me." But they're true anyway. Look at it this way: Mindy would be bored with anyone who was "mellow" all the time. Mindy needs that sense of a growing edge. And nowhere is that drive, that "divine discontent," more central than in the relationship itself, where the natural partner is someone utterly committed to dealing realistically, responsibly, and effectively with the endless "project" of making the partnership richer, more truthful, and more intensely alive--a joyful, exhausting, ambivalent process, but one without which Mindy can't easily live.

On Pointe @)~~

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